in addition to the suggestions above;
Train yourself to look farther down the road and slow down to increase the chances a light will change and traffic will start moving. Keep the car moving smoothly. Drive as if there is a raw egg on top of the accelerator pedal that must not be broken.(and brake pedal for that matter)
more radical;
remove ALL unneeded weight, floor mats, maybe rear headrests, - perhaps even to the point of removing seats if you literally would never use them. If you feel you would never change a flat tire and would just call for flatbed tow or for help from a spouse or w'ever that could bring the spare and tools to you - dump the spare and the jack and tools.
next time you get tires, maybe get some that are a few percent larger in diameter. Of course, the speedometer and odometer will be incorrect.