Plugs aren't due but every 105-115k miles. The OE plug is an NGK with heat range 6. There's only one plug that really fits with this heat range and its NGK.
The hesitation could be a dirty throttle body. Could be just a lag in re engagement of the TCC. When you are in 3, you are at a higher engine rpm and the TCC is not engaged, so the reaction from throttle is going to be different. In D, the TCC lets go when you let off the throttle to relieve engine load and there will be a short lag in the time it takes for the fluid to pressurize against the clutch again.
Check your trans fluid level and if its been over 50k, its due for a flush and filter anyway so you can have that done and see what happens. Trans fluid breaks down and the pressure will change over time.
The hesitation could be a dirty throttle body. Could be just a lag in re engagement of the TCC. When you are in 3, you are at a higher engine rpm and the TCC is not engaged, so the reaction from throttle is going to be different. In D, the TCC lets go when you let off the throttle to relieve engine load and there will be a short lag in the time it takes for the fluid to pressurize against the clutch again.
Check your trans fluid level and if its been over 50k, its due for a flush and filter anyway so you can have that done and see what happens. Trans fluid breaks down and the pressure will change over time.