I know this thread is specifically about the DCM battery, but just to answer a few of the related questions about the removal of the DCM:
1) There have been no problems with the navigation GPS, or the stereo, or any other issues after the DCM was removed.
2) I needed a bypass connector to restore the speaker function, and hands-free microphone connection.
See this thread:
I would like to get a gen-5 with no (working) LTE/cellular radio, and I'm having trouble finding clear information on which trim levels either had no LTE radio or had it only as an option. (I'm deliberately not saying "Starlink" since it sounds like even that term is confusing.) 1) Which trim...
www.subaruoutback.org
3) My car now is much less vulnerable to being hacked, because there is no remote access. All Starlink functionality is unavailable, so both of the overhead SOS and info lights are out, and pushing the buttons does nothing. Any computer system hacking would required direct access to the CAN bus(es). Or maybe just the keyless entry system. But not through the cellular data connection.
4) There is a crash recorder (part of the ECM?) in Outbacks. But I don't think that data is sent through Starlink. I think there needs to be a direct physical connection to the car to download that data. And, perhaps surprisingly, I don't mind that. If there's a crash, and it's serious enough to require the black box data, then that data should be part of the inquiry.
5) Is big brother watching us? Well, yes, through many different devices (cell phones, for example). But "big brother" is really corporations, these days. And unlike in George Orwell's "1984", they have gotten us to pay for the privilege of being monitored and tracked. No, I don't wear a tinfoil hat, and all these corporations really want to do is keep selling you more stuff. But somehow, I just need to push things back a bit, and this is one way to do that. I know others see this differently, and that's OK too.
6) V2V (Vehicle to vehicle) communication is
not part of the DCM capabilities. Its only means of communication is through a cellular modem, and "phoning home". Yes, your car has a phone number. And V2V cannot operate by one car dialing another car's cell phone number at an intersection. How would the DCM know the proper number(s) to dial? It would also be way too slow for accident avoidance.
If you have decided not to keep paying for Starlink, there is no reason to replace the battery. Just remove the DCM.
Back to the battery:
Soldering leads to a bare cell is non-trivial, because you can't use heat based soldering. These type of wired battery connections are typically made with resistance welding. And I agree, you need exactly the same voltage and current rating, and the same Li-ion chemistry, in order to avoid problems, including overheating and fire risk. I would just spend the $50 to get the OEM part.