It sounds like you want to keep the OEM Yokohama tires & wheels and buy just one more? While there are lots of people selling their Yokos & wheels (because they have upgraded), nobody wants to sell just one and split the set.
Here's what I did: I bought one lightly used OEM wheel from ebay. Then I purchased 5 new Falken Wildpeak A/T Trails so I'd have a full size spare, all mounted on matching OEM rims. I sold the 4 OEM Yoko tires (which had about 2k miles on them) on Craigslist and while I didn't get what I wanted for them, I got a bit more than the price of the wheel I had purchased on ebay.
At the time I did this, I did not bother to have my tire dealer install a TPMS for the full-sized spare. This was last September and it was believed back then that only the Onyx was capable of storing 5 TPMS. Then last month or so I was reading the forum thread about installing TPMS on the spare and found out my Touring XT definitely would have registered a 5th TPMS no problem (I think all but the base model will register that 5th TPMS). When I found that out, I got all excited and got a quote from my tire dealer to install and register a 5th TPMS in the spare (about $100) so I could put all 5 tires into rotation.
Unfortunately, by the time I realized I could do that, I already had put about 8000 miles on the Falkens and I have decided it is too late to put a 5th tire into regular rotation. So the spare is now a dedicated full-sized spare and doesn't have a TPMS installed (yet) and isn't going into rotation. At some point I will get the 5th TPMS installed on the spare. Then, when the other 4 Falkens need replacement, I will definitely put all 5 tires into rotation.
I think everyone who has the Falkens thinks they are better than the OEM Yokos and if you do this you will definitely spend a lot less than spending $1300 on a set of 4 OEM Yokos on OEM wheels and then trying to unload just three of them.