I have a Limited reserved with expected delivery this month, and I am very excited. However, I had a sudden crisis of faith this weekend, and am wondering if I should really be considering a minivan. Talk me in / out of it.
TL;DR: Expanding family -- OB now and minivan later, or just get the minivan now?
Sorry this post is so long but I would like to give you details in case that helps sway your opinion.
Our situation:
Come May, we will have 2 kids under 2. :gasp: I'm excited about that, and if all goes well hope to expand the family to 3-4 kids before all is said and done. Even if we just stick with two kids, eventually I could see where a van would be very useful. However, the time to school age kids with friends and activities is still years away.
I am used to hand-me-down cars that I drive till ~150,000 mi, 15 years, etc. Now that I have a real job, we can afford new cars and to trade them in before end of life - I'm just not used to that mentality and am having a hard time wrapping my head around the finances of it all.
Currently, my husband has a new Mazda6 which he loves for his long commute. We're giving up his Xterra once the Outback comes in. (Not living in AZ anymore + little kids = no more off-road adventures.) He does NOT want a minivan.
My car (the OB, or whatever) is mainly for my commute ~15 miles per day with the very occasional road trip for family vacations (sometimes with the 75 lb lab + 15 lb Bichon), and trips to local parks, etc, with strollers and dogs. I am not a stay-at-home mom constantly hauling the kids all over the place on errands, to play dates, etc.
So: OB or minivan? I've driven minivans before and hated the huge blindspot and shoebox-on-wheels feeling. BUT, does it make more sense for our future family to get the minivan now?
Again, huge apologies for the length of this post. Thank you for reading. I need to think this all through before I sign on the dotted line.
TL;DR: Expanding family -- OB now and minivan later, or just get the minivan now?
Sorry this post is so long but I would like to give you details in case that helps sway your opinion.
Our situation:
Come May, we will have 2 kids under 2. :gasp: I'm excited about that, and if all goes well hope to expand the family to 3-4 kids before all is said and done. Even if we just stick with two kids, eventually I could see where a van would be very useful. However, the time to school age kids with friends and activities is still years away.
I am used to hand-me-down cars that I drive till ~150,000 mi, 15 years, etc. Now that I have a real job, we can afford new cars and to trade them in before end of life - I'm just not used to that mentality and am having a hard time wrapping my head around the finances of it all.
Currently, my husband has a new Mazda6 which he loves for his long commute. We're giving up his Xterra once the Outback comes in. (Not living in AZ anymore + little kids = no more off-road adventures.) He does NOT want a minivan.
My car (the OB, or whatever) is mainly for my commute ~15 miles per day with the very occasional road trip for family vacations (sometimes with the 75 lb lab + 15 lb Bichon), and trips to local parks, etc, with strollers and dogs. I am not a stay-at-home mom constantly hauling the kids all over the place on errands, to play dates, etc.
So: OB or minivan? I've driven minivans before and hated the huge blindspot and shoebox-on-wheels feeling. BUT, does it make more sense for our future family to get the minivan now?
Again, huge apologies for the length of this post. Thank you for reading. I need to think this all through before I sign on the dotted line.